As we were walking to the restaurant, we passed by many locals who of course stopped and starred because it was me, 2 other black Americans, 3 white girls and an Asian guy. After about 10 minutes, I noticed I was the only one greeting everyone as they waved and said “hello, how are you?” I became curious as to why all the other interns who were clearly more foreign looking in this country than I am, were not taking a second out of their lives to smile and say hello to these local Ugandans who smiled and greeted them by saying, “Oliotea Muzungu” (which is directly translated as, how are you white person?)
One man looked at me as we were walking and stated, “It is nice to see someone who looks like us.” Its funny because although that was a very unclear statement, I knew exactly what he was talking about. I looked at him, smiled, and said “Thank you.” The people of this small town are kind, it is the least we can do as foreigners coming into their home to greet them with a smile and a genuine “How are you” or “Olioteaa.”
For me, it is the least I can do. Although we may not speak the same language or share the same cultural norms, human interaction is the same, internationally. A smile will always convey the same thing…always. So in a way, a smile is one of the few ways I can show my gratitude for the people of this community. It’s Sunday morning now and as I prepare for the upcoming week, I am more content with the my experience here than I have ever been up to this point. I guess the only thing I can be hopeful for is that like Marianne Williamson stated so eloquently, when I let my own light shine, I will unconsciously give permission for others around me to do the same. My smile and my attitude have changed tremendously from the beginning of last week till now, so maybe Mister Douglass knew the secret all along that, “Without struggle, there can be no progress.”
I am claiming that this week, I can learn much more from the children at New Hope than I can ever begin to teach them. Keep it classy, America and I hope all my family and friends will become even more conscious this week of the power of each and everyone of you all’s smile.
PS: PICS PICS PICS!
-PGJ
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